Hello folks!
This is a long overdue post – I was pretty surprised that I did not have an article on this topic before. I think I did mention it a little bit here and there in my other articles but nothing as specific as how this one is going to get. Hopefully I’ll be able to collect my thoughts and put them together so that those of you who are curious about life on-board or who’s embarking on their first contract on the ship will find my blog and this article useful.
Looking back, I did pretty much enough research about life on ships before I went but nothing really prepared me for what I was about to experience. I again, would like to stress that it will not be the same for everyone, we have our homebodies, we have our party people and of course we have people like me – somewhere in between. Also, the experiences are based on my own – I’ve had a different working experience compared to others, life in Malaysia in different compared to people from different nations and of course, people’s perception goes a little different too. But there’s definitely a similarity somewhere that you will be able to relate with in all these.
Okay! Here goes, let’s start with the cons first.
Personal Space
This is like, almost non-existent. Truth is, somebody is definitely going to be in your face majority of the time. One, because you’re most likely to have a roommate and two, because the ship is such a “small community” that everyone sorts of knows everyone. Let me explain a little. I’ve never had a roommate which I didn’t like and because I’m such an easygoing person, I think nobody really had a problem with me. But as a person, I love having my own “me time” which is really hard on the ship. The only time which I could really be alone is usually during breaks but those breaks are short. So I usually compensate the “me time” on port days. As for the “small community” remark, yes we do have an estimated number of 1500 crew members on-board a ship but you see the same people all the time. Somehow people just kinda see what you’re doing and with who and trust me they have eyes everywhere, lol.
Missing out on important events
One of the obvious bummers of working on-board. You miss out on birthdays, on weddings, heck I even missed seeing my dad before he passed. People might argue that those who work abroad are also facing the same issues but you don’t understand here. If you work abroad you get to plan when to go home. You can easily choose to get out and hop on a plane. Your best friend can probably announce to you that she’s getting married in 3 months and you’ll be booking your flight the next minute. For most of us, we sign a 6 – 9 month contract which can only be shortened if you get it approved by head office. I know someone who’s friend is getting married and she has to pay for her own flights back after getting her contract shortened. You get on the ship and it gets hard to leave especially if you’re stuck at sea. I’m not saying that it’s impossible – I’m saying that you can’t be there without having to go through a lot.
Feeling alienated from reality
You’ve been to places many can only dream of going. You’ve met people and seen things that one can only get through experience. It’s hard for people to understand what you go through on a daily basis. Life as a seafarer? Many envision you as this free-spirited wanderer traveling to exotic places and living the damn high life and rolling in money. What about the hard work and drama in between? What about the long sea days, crew and passenger drills, annoying people around you and not being home for long periods of time? When you do get home, everyone is occupied with their normal routines (9-5 jobs, weekends off etc.) and you pretty much feel a little disconnected. What most people’s reality are aren’t yours and what’s yours aren’t theirs.
Contract instabilities
I’m not speaking out for every crew member here but some of us have experienced a certain level of insecurity when it comes to getting the next contract. By practice, you will most likely be offered another contract once you finish the current one providing you weren’t causing trouble and all. However, sometimes the next contract that was offered comes with a huge vacation (let’s say 3.5 months and more?) and we are stuck with no money and nothing that we can do about it except pray and request for a shorter vacation. It would be fine if you’ve done your financial planning properly and have foreseen the long vacation period but it does cause a lot of anxiety if you’re not quite sure when you’re leaving again.
Packing, unpacking, wasting!
I’ve never quite realized or thought too much about this aspect until I went shopping for supplies recently. We spent so much every contract to embark because we tend to buy new stuff for our new contract. Imagine new bottles of toiletries, new uniform etc. only to leave them behind at the end of our contract because “they’re not worth bringing home”. Let’s say maybe half used bottles of shampoo, laundry detergent, sachets of instant coffee – you know, stuff that aren’t super expensive and important but it all adds up in the end. Of course you give them away to someone but little stuff adds up in the end as well.
So we’ve gone through most of the cons when it comes to working on board (I know you people are asking – what about the nasty food? I never had any trouble with food lol just laziness to get to the mess). Let’s move on to the pros – the fun parts.
Widening your horizons
And I don’t mean only geographically. You meet different people all the time and your mindset changes over time. You learn to be more accepting, you learn to be more tolerant, you learn to view things from different perspectives. Another bonus are the amazing friends you meet along the way.
Financial opportunities
I’m pretty sure everybody’s financial commitments are different, especially when it comes to those who are supporting their families back home but for me, working on-board has opened doors to opportunities I would find hard to achieve if I’m working on land. I lived in the city and had to pay rent, transportation, food, gym, utilities and that left me with pretty much a meager amount of savings. Working on the ship saved me a lot of money and with the exchange rate – helped pay my vacation trips as well as my mom’s. I wouldn’t say that it made me a millionaire (in fact, far from that) but I’m more comfortable financially now that I’ve ever been.
Vacation time
I’m not going to contradict with my point on vacation times but it does differ a lot compared to having a 9-5 job. We usually come back to a 2 month break which made traveling and spending time with family and friends a lot easier compared to say, having 14 days of annual leave (I had only 10 when I worked with Tiffany & Co.). On another note, most friends work 9-5 jobs with only the weekends off so sometimes it’s tough too. Blessing or curse?
You learn more about yourself
You learn what you’re made of, what you’re capable of doing and the things you’re able to go through with. You strengthen your morals and your principles and question what’s important in life. When it comes to living and working on a ship, you’re constantly faced with a lot of temptation – spending, drinking, partying, sexual – it all boils down to what you believe is right. I think it’s a blessing in disguise, even though at that very moment you feel like jumping off the ship but like what people say, whatever that doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. And you get plenty of those moments on-board, trust me.