#Shiplife Series: Applying for a Cruise Ship Job – Part Two

Hey lovelies!

10 more days to go til  #Shiplife! I’m super psyched yet super stressed out with all the packing I have to do! Haven’t done much but everything has to go! Plus I’ll  be working during the weekends to provide a handover to the girl that will be replacing my role. Sooo tired but sooo much to do and so many people to meet before I leave!

I’ll be having a farewell dinner with my colleagues later in the evening, followed by dinner & drinks with my uni mates on Saturday night. Plus another few dinners with friends on Sunday & Tuesday! Ending it all with a bang with our annual dinner on the 23rd – as well as my last working day!

So here’s the second part of my cruise job application experience!

 

I’m  feeling a little bit delirious thanks to the lack of sleep,  still plenty  to do and loads to buy. Cheerio & I’ll update again soon!

#Shiplife Series: 14 Days to Go!

Two more weeks. 14 Days and I’m freaking out because who wouldn’t?

I’m allowed 2 pieces of luggage so long they’re within 62″ linear. So I went and bought another medium sized Delsey luggage (equivalent to a 24″  I think). After putting the two bags together, I felt they might be a bit too big for a teeny sized cabin.

Take away one bag and I’m left with a very full suitcase (could be over the limit of 23 kgs even). How?! I don’t want to bring something too bulky and make my room mate hate me. But the  guidelines did say 2…(huge dilemma here). People online advised to pack light (eg. bring a rolling duffel, not too many clothes etc.) but a rolling duffel most lightly won’t be as durable compared to the standard luggage plus since I have no idea which ship I’ll be transferred to once  I finish my training – it might be somewhere hot or cold so I’ll need like summer wear & sweaters.

I’ve been slowly putting stuff into my “To Bring” pile and it’s definitely getting bigger. Plus so much stuff I’ve yet to buy – work shoes, stockings, belt, medicine etc. Oh lordy!

On top of that I’ll have to pack everything as I’ll be leaving KL at the same time which adds a huge chunk of stress to my already stressful situation lol. Okay, super sleepy and tired after stressing myself over I’m just going to sleep now.

Talk about being excited.

#Shiplife Series: Applying for a Cruise Ship Job – Part One

Hi guys!

Just made a video on my experience in applying for a cruise ship job. This is just the first part  where I shared how it all happened so do watch if you’re interested!

It gets kinda lengthy due to my rambling which is why I split the whole thing into parts, wouldn’t want you guys to bleed from your eyes and ears!

Do drop me a note if you have questions, would love to hear them. Cheers!

Challenging the Asian Life Formula

“Is that like your dream job?” my inquisitive co-worker asked.

“Well, it’s not really a dream job”.

My dream job consists of me having no job yet the ability to spin money out of pure Malaysian humidity which will make me very rich indeed.

Many have questioned my sudden decision. Most who probably feel I’m having “delusions of grandeur”. Who knows, maybe I am. Some people, probably out of  sheer politeness or maybe  just out of plain shock said nothing. Some people asked too much. Some people were feeding me lines I don’t want to hear. Yep, the rules to the Asian Life Formula.

For those of you who aren’t familiar with the guide to living a somewhat “successful”  Asian life, there are a few stages to which you go through in life.

First, you study hard. And make sure you get into University because that’s what most people do.

Then you get a “good” job once you graduate. I thought I knew what a good job was. I believe good in that context meant something stable and most likely in an office setting. I guess the worse  you could do is not have a job rather than have a bad job, haha.

You then get a spouse, get married, buy property (doesn’t really matter if you can afford them or not or whether it makes sense, property is stability!). After that, have kids and slog away raising them and paying your mountain of debt. Your kids will grow up and hopefully be decent people  of society.

Don’t get me wrong and don’t start flying into a rage.

I know some people who did well and are happy with their lives. It’s really nice to come home to a cosy house  and family and go to work knowing everything is going well. But this isn’t me.

“I want adventure in the great wide somewhere, I want it more than I can tell”. I quote Belle from Beauty and the Beast, lol. Darn those Disney movies. And the Little Mermaid? “When’s it my turn? Wouldn’t I love? Love to explore the shore up above?” Again I digress.

I had my fair share of the whole Asian formula thing. I went to school, didn’t study much but hey I did get pretty decent grades. I went to university. Had boyfriends. Worked with some amazing companies.

“Still no boyfriend?”

“Still not married?”

“People your age should focus on a stable career.”

“Are your parents okay with this?”

You know, I might really wake up one day and regret everything I said today. I might even laugh at myself for being so stupid. Like har har, should have just stayed with that job and all this shit wouldn’t have happened , har har.

But I want to be foolish.

I want to go all out and be out there, instead of wishing I have done it. I couldn’t give two toots to the kind of life that wants me to settle – married with 10 babies and all.

Most likely I wouldn’t end up rich, famous or driving a BMW. But I’m cool with that.

 

 

#Shiplife Series: Getting a US C1/D Visa in Malaysia Part 2

Continuation from my previous post #Shiplife Series: Getting a US C1/D Visa in Malaysia – Part 1

On the day of my appointment with the US embassy in Malaysia, I made sure I brought all the required documents with me. It’s pretty straightforward really and if you check your confirmation letter, it has all the information you need. I brought my confirmation of appointment, my DS-160 application confirmation, my employment letter, proof of Visa payment as well as a photograph. There  might be some other documents required for different visas so do check. Got there 15 minutes before my scheduled appointment which was what’s required. They won’t let you in even though you’re uber early so there’s really no point unless you’re okay with waiting outside by the gates. Do not drive if you can help it as there’s no parking spot at the embassy. I took the train to the nearest station which is Ampang Park LRT and took an uber. No fuss, no worries, no sweat.

There wasn’t really a line when I was there so I just queued for a bit and waited for the guard to call us out. He’ll ask you for your appointment time and to get your passport and identity card ready for verification. The group with the same appointment time will then proceed to the guard house where they will hold your identity card and stick your passport with a label containing your name, details and appointment time. You will then be ushered into another room where you’ll have to go through a security scan, very much like at the airport. You’ll then be shown to another security point where you hand over your belongings (car keys, phone etc.). Do be reminded that there are no lockers so do not bring any large bags or any electronic devices other than your car key fob and cell phone. They allow small clutches or bags so try not to bring too much as you really just want to get  it over  and done with as smooth as you can.

Once you hand over your electronics for safekeeping the next step is to enter the embassy, woot! You will have to go through a scanner again and have your bag searched. There will be someone who will pass you a number and you queue for document submission. The first  part  will involve you showing them your passport and then  scanning your fingerprints. The people at the counter didn’t ask for any documents so all I did was to scan all 10 of my fingers and yep, basically that’s the first part. There are some people who took longer so do make sure you bring everything  you need just in case. Oh yes, important point. If you’re not family and not married but you’re applying for a visa with your partner, please make sure you go as individuals. That means two separate numbers and one person at  a  time, even if you both did apply together. This was made very clear to a couple that was there but they either did not understand or took it too lightly but they received a huge telling off, I kid you not. Do not try your luck if you want to make sure your application is a success, haha.

So once I finished I went to wait my turn to be interviewed. You’ll be asked to go to the waiting room and the security personnel will coordinate the numbers.  He’ll basically call out for your number so make sure you’re ready. You’ll go back to the counters but queue for  the interview. Nerve-wrecking, there were some  people who wasn’t very honest during their interview and got questioned for being wishy-washy. Important part is to be honest with your intentions to visit the US and to know where you’re going, who you’re staying with, etc. The people at the embassy have seen and met many people and I’m pretty sure they can smell something if it’s not right.

I was interviewed by  a stern-looking woman  who asked me what my intentions to visit USA are, what I’m working as, the basics. She was pretty surprised  when I told  her  I’ll be joining a ship and asked for my employment letter. I was then asked about my contract and what happens after the contract ends. Last question was whether I have any relatives living in the US which I answered according to what was declared during my application. I’m pretty sure she has everything on her computer but was trying to test my consistency. She then said, “Your visa is approved”. I scurried away and about 2 days later, my passport was couriered to me with my C1/D visa. You can  opt to do self-collection at Menara MCA too if you wish but since I wasn’t rushing for time I chose for it to be couriered to me.

Well that’s it! Pretty scary process but as long as you’re genuine in your application and follow all instructions it should go pretty smoothly. I hope it’ll help some of you should you wish to apply for a US Visa in Malaysia. ‘Til then, shiplife countdown continues!